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The Story of BREATHE

"Rick and I know what it is like to walk the long journey of mental illness with a child. Our youngest son, Matthew, was diagnosed with major depressive disorder and anxiety as a young child, and later, with chronic suicidality, OCD, and borderline personality disorder. We sought the best help we could for Matthew but grew frustrated with a mental health system that frequently lacked coordination, availability, and accessibility. We often felt isolated and alone on the journey, misunderstood and judged by others, and heartbroken that we could not get the help our dear son needed to survive and thrive.

After 20 years of intense struggle, serious mental illness became a burden Matthew could no longer carry, and he took his life on April 5, 2013. Our grief has been immense; family, friends, and the hope of Heaven have sustained us.

In the aftermath of Matthew’s death, we regularly encourage the faith community through our writing and public speaking to recognize the suffering that mental illness brings to people and to offer kindness, compassion, and practical help for affected families in response. I have become a mental health and suicide prevention advocate for individuals and families. In 2019, Rick and I decided to honor our son by providing wholistic support for other families walking the long road of mental illness through the ministry of BREATHE."

- Kay Warren

BREATHE Events

BREATHE Conversations Call

Are you exhausted and unsure how to establish healthy boundaries to protect your well-being while staying connected to your child? You're not alone. Join us on Wednesday, May 20, 2026, as Kay Warren sits down with world-renowned psychologist Dr. Xavier Amador to tackle one of the hardest challenges parents face: setting healthy boundaries with a child (of any age) living with mental illness. Learn what healthy boundaries encompass, why your child may refuse help due to anosognosia, and how active listening and humility can de-escalate conflict. Discover why prioritizing connection over being right is key to guiding your child toward care. We will close our time together in prayer, trusting that God can bring hope and healing to your family. Register now.

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May 20, 2026
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Stronger Together: A Marriage Enrichment Event

While marriage itself can be challenging, the stress of parenting a child with mental illness can result in significant emotional, relational, and communication breakdowns with our partners. Rick and Kay Warren know this dynamic well. Sharing from their own experience of raising a child with mental illness, they invite parents of children (any age) with mental health challenges to this one-day marriage event designed to bring rest, renewal, and reconnection. Please join them for a day of respite to turn toward your spouse, meet other couples walking a similar journey, and come away with a renewed sense of hope as you become stronger together.

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7 Jun
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June 7, 2026
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Rock Fellowship

Rock Fellowship is a Christ-centered online community through Zoom, designed for fathers of children living with mental illness. Together, we’ll build a community where dads can find strength, wisdom, and hope. It is a space where no dad walks alone.

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27 Jun
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27 Jun
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June 27, 2026
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2026 BREATHE Retreat

The BREATHE Retreat is a restorative weekend for moms of children (any age) facing mental health challenges. Designed to renew body, soul, and spirit, the retreat offers personal counsel from a mental health professional, focused prayer, Christ-centered yoga, aromatherapy, and creative expressions that foster peace and restoration. Hosted by Kay Warren, who shares her own journey of parenting a child with serious mental illness, the retreat also provides space to connect in supportive community with other moms walking a similar path.

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16 Oct
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18 Oct
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October 16, 2026
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